You are a 30 - 50 year old, single, sensitive man or woman who struggles to overcome the effects of bullying in your life. You are largely creative, spiritual and feminine in nature.
You have a feeling of isolation and loneliness, not really fitting in within the society that exists around you, you are not able to truly trust anyone or speak your truth. You are ashamed to look at yourself in the mirror and call yourself a man or woman because you don’t really feel as if you have succeeded in anything in life as yet, and don’t match the more familiar masculine or feminine archetype. You have fairly low self esteem and very little of your own power or energy left due to being continually criticised, controlled, oppressed and undermined since birth,
You feel trapped and disillusioned with the life that you encounter, you feel that nobody really understands you, least of all potential partners, family and friends. This is because you hardly know yourself, and thus you have very little chance of turning up authentically anywhere in your life at this moment in time. You are desperate, with seemingly nowhere to turn and feel totally lost within your personal and professional life.
You are not sure of where you are headed as a consequence. You have been socially conditioned to such an extent that you find it difficult to make choices for yourself, as none match who you really are deep down or the dream that you have for yourself at your very core and thus you tend to drift along, letting other people make decisions for you, allowing them to rule your life.
You may have experienced a dominant maternal influence in the past, perhaps a critical, controlling parent or two, maybe you had an absent father and were left at the mercy of your mother for long periods of time.
You perhaps haven't had any real success with relationships, not with people that you have really wanted to be with in any case. Perhaps you haven't established your true sexuality as yet or embodied the full masculine or feminine part of you.
Maybe you seek escapism from all of this in the shape of nature based sports; surfing, sailing, wild swimming or just plain walking in the great outdoors, anything to avoid the feeling of returning to work and being 'lost in corporation' for yet another week of the daily grind.
You long for a life that sits outside of the mainstream that you experience everyday, more aligned with who you really are, where you are amongst other like-minded, kindred spirits, discovering a soul family, brotherhood or sisterhood to belong to. You are looking for alternatives in your life and you wish for more authentic connections.
You are happiest out in nature and have a strong connection to plants, animals and the wider Universe. You may have a fervent desire to create a better community and Earth for us all.
You may also be at a point of awakening, nature is calling you to come back into alignment with your true self. It is the butterfly wishing to escape beyond the caterpillar life that you experience day by day.
More than anything you feel as if you just need somebody to say 'YES' to you, so you feel accepted and that you don't feel so separated within our community. For someone to acknowledge who you are, what your gifts are, what your true value is and what you are here to do on this planet at this moment in time.
This is where I come in and extend my hand of friendship to you, offering you support from all of my Allies Of Nature so that you can start to understand your relationship to yourself, others and spirit in order to establish a new sense of self, what your life purpose, vision and values are for this lifetime. So you can begin to come home to yourself and get a real sense of belonging, knowing your true place in the world and how your piece of the puzzle fits within the wider jigsaw of life. You can then start to claim your true power. This in turn leads to more fulfilling relationships, work and lifestyle.