My Ideal Client
THE TOXIC CATERPILLAR
More and more of my work is being dedicated towards helping people overcome the effects of toxic masculinity. A larger proportion of my clients are now men believe it or not, but I do work with women in a similar fashion too.
If you are to be a client of mine then at some point in your life, if not within your present circumstances, you will have been left with a feeling of being isolated and alone, that you haven't really fited within the community that exists around you. You recognise yourself as a black sheep of the family and therefore don't feel able to trust anyone or speak your truth. You have fairly low self esteem and very little of your own power or energy left due to being continually criticised, controlled and undermined since birth.
You feel trapped and disillusioned with the life that you encounter, that nobody really understands you. You have difficulty knowing yourself and thus have had little chance of showing up authentically anywhere, anytime. You are desperate for connection, with seemingly nowhere to turn and feel totally lost within your personal and professional life.
You don't know where you are headed as a consequence. You have been conditioned to such an extent that you find it hard to make choices for yourself, as none really match who you really are deep down or the dream that you know exists for yourself at your very core, thus you tend to drift along and let other people make decisions for you. You have difficulty in manifesting what you truly want in your life.
You have passed the point of mid-life and the clock is ticking. You feel as if you haven’t really achieved anything as yet. You are frustrated at your lack of progress and feel aggrieved that you haven't had the rewarding job, beautiful partner, loving family or celebratory tribe that you wish for. You are envious of others that seemingly do have these things and you project heavily upon them as a result.
You don't really know what your life purpose is, what the real reason is for you being here at this moment in time or what your true gifts are that you have to offer others and the world at large. You may well have been successful to a degree, but you are exasperated with life and you often wonder what is the point of it all. You are ashamed to look at yourself in the mirror and call yourself a man or woman because you feel that you don't really match the masculine or feminine archetype that mainstream culture applauds and lauds, which actually is fairly toxic. This leads to copious amounts of despair, depression and anxiety within you in your search to become a more divine being.
You perhaps haven't had any real success with relationships, not with people that you have wanted to be with in any case, maybe you haven't established your true sexuality as yet or fully embodied the divine masculine or deep feminine within.
You seek escapism, freedom, in the shape of your spirituality or nature based activities; surfing, sailing, wild swimming or just plain walking in the great outdoors, anything to avoid the feeling of having to return to work and get 'lost in corporation’, for yet another week of the daily grind.
You long for a life that sits outside of the mainstream that you experience every day, that is more aligned with who you really are, where you are able to be amongst other like-spirited people, discovering a soul family, brotherhood or sisterhood to belong to. You are looking for alternatives in your life and you wish for more authentic relationships.
You are happiest out in nature and have a strong connection to the plants, animals and the wider Universe. You may have a deep desire to create a better community and Earth for us all.
You are at a point of awakening, enough is enough, your true nature is giving you The Call To Adventure, imploring you to discover 'The Essence Of Who You Are'. It is the butterfly within wishing to escape beyond the caterpillar life that you have experienced every day of your existence thus far.
More than anything you feel as if you just need somebody to say 'YES' to you, so you feel accepted and that you don't feel so separated within our community. For someone to acknowledge who you are, what your true value is and what you are here to do on this planet at this time.
This is where I come in and extend my hand of friendship to you, offering you support from all of my Allies Of Nature so that you can start to understand your relationship to yourself, others and spirit in order to establish a new sense of self, what your life purpose, vision and set of values are, so you can begin to come home to yourself and get a real sense of belonging, knowing where you fit within the world, taking your rightful place upon the circle of life, setting your spirit free. You can then claim your true power. This in turn leads to more fulfilling relationships, work and life in general.
This is not so much a synopsis of your true self but moreover another page About Me, as this is my journey too and why I feel that I am in such a good place to be able to help you, as I have walked the path ahead of you before beginning to fly.
Are you ready to answer The Call To Adventure that comes from deep within you? If so let our journey together begin.
If you are to be a client of mine then at some point in your life, if not within your present circumstances, you will have been left with a feeling of being isolated and alone, that you haven't really fited within the community that exists around you. You recognise yourself as a black sheep of the family and therefore don't feel able to trust anyone or speak your truth. You have fairly low self esteem and very little of your own power or energy left due to being continually criticised, controlled and undermined since birth.
You feel trapped and disillusioned with the life that you encounter, that nobody really understands you. You have difficulty knowing yourself and thus have had little chance of showing up authentically anywhere, anytime. You are desperate for connection, with seemingly nowhere to turn and feel totally lost within your personal and professional life.
You don't know where you are headed as a consequence. You have been conditioned to such an extent that you find it hard to make choices for yourself, as none really match who you really are deep down or the dream that you know exists for yourself at your very core, thus you tend to drift along and let other people make decisions for you. You have difficulty in manifesting what you truly want in your life.
You have passed the point of mid-life and the clock is ticking. You feel as if you haven’t really achieved anything as yet. You are frustrated at your lack of progress and feel aggrieved that you haven't had the rewarding job, beautiful partner, loving family or celebratory tribe that you wish for. You are envious of others that seemingly do have these things and you project heavily upon them as a result.
You don't really know what your life purpose is, what the real reason is for you being here at this moment in time or what your true gifts are that you have to offer others and the world at large. You may well have been successful to a degree, but you are exasperated with life and you often wonder what is the point of it all. You are ashamed to look at yourself in the mirror and call yourself a man or woman because you feel that you don't really match the masculine or feminine archetype that mainstream culture applauds and lauds, which actually is fairly toxic. This leads to copious amounts of despair, depression and anxiety within you in your search to become a more divine being.
You perhaps haven't had any real success with relationships, not with people that you have wanted to be with in any case, maybe you haven't established your true sexuality as yet or fully embodied the divine masculine or deep feminine within.
You seek escapism, freedom, in the shape of your spirituality or nature based activities; surfing, sailing, wild swimming or just plain walking in the great outdoors, anything to avoid the feeling of having to return to work and get 'lost in corporation’, for yet another week of the daily grind.
You long for a life that sits outside of the mainstream that you experience every day, that is more aligned with who you really are, where you are able to be amongst other like-spirited people, discovering a soul family, brotherhood or sisterhood to belong to. You are looking for alternatives in your life and you wish for more authentic relationships.
You are happiest out in nature and have a strong connection to the plants, animals and the wider Universe. You may have a deep desire to create a better community and Earth for us all.
You are at a point of awakening, enough is enough, your true nature is giving you The Call To Adventure, imploring you to discover 'The Essence Of Who You Are'. It is the butterfly within wishing to escape beyond the caterpillar life that you have experienced every day of your existence thus far.
More than anything you feel as if you just need somebody to say 'YES' to you, so you feel accepted and that you don't feel so separated within our community. For someone to acknowledge who you are, what your true value is and what you are here to do on this planet at this time.
This is where I come in and extend my hand of friendship to you, offering you support from all of my Allies Of Nature so that you can start to understand your relationship to yourself, others and spirit in order to establish a new sense of self, what your life purpose, vision and set of values are, so you can begin to come home to yourself and get a real sense of belonging, knowing where you fit within the world, taking your rightful place upon the circle of life, setting your spirit free. You can then claim your true power. This in turn leads to more fulfilling relationships, work and life in general.
This is not so much a synopsis of your true self but moreover another page About Me, as this is my journey too and why I feel that I am in such a good place to be able to help you, as I have walked the path ahead of you before beginning to fly.
Are you ready to answer The Call To Adventure that comes from deep within you? If so let our journey together begin.
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